Brandon maxie
5 min readJan 31, 2022

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How to get the girl of your dreams

Women are really hard to understand. I’m sure most of you fellas know that already but my topic today is how to get the girl you’ve been seeing at the local supermarket or Cafe. So I hope my methods help you achieve what your trying to accomplish with the special lady.

CONFIDENCE- I put this at the top of the list because it’s the most important rule to getting the woman of your dreams. Women don’t like men that have the “I can’t” attitude, they want a man that isn’t scared to go for what they want and have the nerve to walk up and talk to a pretty lady. If your a man that’s scared to talk to women the only advice I can give you is to take a deep breath and do it the worst she can do is say get away or just straight no. So if your not confident definitely work on that.

HYGIENE- This is a big one too for the simple fact that women love a man that looks and smells good. Before you walk up to a woman to ask her out or to just flirt make sure your breath is on point and that you don’t stink to all hell. Personal hygiene is very important not only to the people around you but also, yourself. I like to keep smelling good and looking good, women always compliment how good I smell and what is it I’m wearing? Which in that situation would be the best time to start to flirt. So make sure you take care of yourself women love it.

SPEND MONEY- People all look at this in different ways most women love to go on fancy dates. When you get to the point where your taking a woman on a date, take time and plan it out and get reservations to a high end restaurant or somewhere intriguing. Make sure you get to know the woman to know what she’s into first so you can plan the date around her interests and if you end up going somewhere and play games or sports always I mean always let the woman win if you go above and beyond to beat her you will more than likely never get to date number two.

SENSE OF HUMOR- This is a good quality to have. One thing a lot of women have in common is they love to laugh, so If your a funny guy your already a step ahead. When your flirting and getting to know a woman throw some of the funniest jokes you can her way make her laugh. When you make her laugh she gets to feeling comfortable around you and the more comfortable she is the better chance you have at making her your lady.

LISTEN- This is important women love to talk all of us men know that already but you always want to pay close attention to a woman to know what she’s into like what food she likes, what her favorite color is, what her favorite flower is, how many kids she has. The more you know about her the more you will know what kind of date to take her on and what kind of gift to get her when the time comes. Always pay attention to every detail of what she’s said to you, trust me women will quiz you without you even knowing that she done it my wife does it all the time so trust me listen very closely to what they say. Don’t forget also to make sure they know that they can confide in you and you will be there to talk and listen anytime she needs you to be there.

RESPECT- Respect is a big thing with women. If a woman sees that you don’t hold the door open for someone or carry a struggling old woman’s groceries to the car she’s not going to be that impressed with you. One thing my grandma always said to me growing up is always respect your elders, women, and anyone else for that matter, one thing a woman always looks at is how a man treats his mother or grandparents because how you treat them is how your going to treat her so this is very important. Be respectful and chivalrous to everyone it goes a long way.

RESPONSIBILITY- This is a big one too, women don’t want a man that stays with mommy. Women want a man that has and gets his own things and takes care of everything he’s supposed to and knows what he wants in life. It don’t even matter if you even flip burgers a woman respects a hard working and responsible man that a 100% fact. Before you go after that dream girl make sure your priorities are in order or you are wasting your time.

GIFTS- Diamonds are a woman’s best friend,well so they say. The point is the ladies love gifts every time they get one they smile and giggle like a schoolgirl. Always make sure you know the woman your buying a gift for so you know what kind of gift she would love the most. Never ask her what kind of gift she wants then she’s going to more than likely ask for something hard to find or expensive. So get to know her and buy her a nice gift then hide it somewhere and come up with a cute way for her to find it or just directly give it to her. Hiding it and leaving clues is always a cute and fun way of giving them something. Just remember women love presents .

Well follow these rules when talking or trying to get the woman of your dreams and things should go exactly the way you want. Just make sure to just be yourself and be a gentleman and you’ll be fine and accomplish what you plan to. Don’t be pushy and don’t be a creeper those two things right there will kill all chances you had at getting that woman’s attention. Thank you so much for reading. Follow me for a follow back I won’t leave you hanging. If you have any future topics you want me to write about or if you have any questions about any of my stories or just about me in general email me at Brandontyler0216@gmail.com thanks so much for reading have a wonderful day and godbless.

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Brandon maxie

I am a hard working guy I love helping people learn new things about topics and products they love check out my content you won't be disappointed I promise